I've led teams through loss, reorgs, layoffs, war and medical emergencies.
My first VP role began in March of 2020. I led through the uncertainty and slog of the pandemic. Getting shocking phone calls about a work related injury (and then dealing with OSHA), helping teams find balance while their country is at war or experiencing civil unrest, loss of a team member, the list goes on.
There is no playbook. HR can only advise so much. Your values may or may not align with your companies PR-approved messaging. You gotta put your own oxygen mask on first.
Leadership in the non-work big life stuff is something you build over time and experience. There's no shortcut. But here's what I try to do:
- Acknowledge the Icky thing. Bring it into the light.
- Make resources accessible β consider sharing on slack/email and having crisis lines in your email footer.
- Be approachable for the hard stuff, without professional consequences.
- Understand that silence is taking a stance, and sends a message.
- Do what you can, but know when it's not your expertise β should you refer to counseling, coaching or HR?
- Have empathy, don't problem solve.
I'm leading within community in Minneapolis currently. And stuff has been bananas. It's been heavy. Talking about work and leadership hasn't felt right. But I'm emerging into a new mode after putting my own oxygen mask on first. I think this email "newsletter" will evolve. And I'd like you to be a part of that.
The way workplaces have been showing up through the recent attacks in Minnesota by Federal Immigration Enforcement have been harrowing, and hugely impactful. And the platitudes or silence from major workplaces reaffirms for me how broken many of our workplaces are.
BIG BREATH.
Reply anytime to let me know your takeaway or how you would like to see this space evolve to best serve whats next for you.
Your Coach in the hard times,
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